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We all like a good old moan now and then but for some people it seems as if their glass is always half empty.

I’m not just referring to the small minority of whingeing mainly British expats - I don’t like to discriminate - South Africans are quite good moaners too.

I’m referring to the people of Paphos in general and in particular the younger generations.

Admittedly, complaining is necessary at times and is often the only way to get things done.

We’ve all been there. Shoddy workmanship, unhelpful shop staff, the poor state of the roads, hospital queues, bad driving, inflated prices, the list goes on.

But recently, I’ve noticed how much younger people like to complain.

I recently overheard these comments in the space of only an hour in a popular Paphos nightclub:

‘I like clubbing but clubs in Paphos are full of Greeks.’

‘The music’s’ too loud.’

‘The drinks are too big.’

‘The lights are flashing too much.’

‘No-one’s dancing.’

‘There are too many people dancing.’

‘There’s only one set of hair straightners in the ladies toilet.’

‘I’m never going to find a husband in here, the men are pitiful.’

‘I can’ stand all this noise and smoke.’

One wonders how these folk manage in their everyday lives. Complaining is not always a bad thing, but if it becomes a defining part of your personality - be warned. You will end up on your own, complaining to your reflection.

It may sound crass - but it's true - its always better to see the glass half full: and if it’s not, learn how to top it up.