Building better relations with dinner diplomacy

By Stefanos Evripidou Published on July 29, 2010

THE TWO leaders yesterday spent the morning in talks and the evening building a “better relationship” and “friendship” at a dinner hosted by Turkish Cypriot leader Dervis Eroglu and his wife Meral at their residence in the north of Nicosia.

President Demetris Christofias and First Lady Elsi walked out of the Eroglu home in good spirits just before 11pm last night, along with the two leaders’ respective aides, Georgios Iacovou and Kudret Ozersay, UN Special Adviser Alexander Downer and their spouses. The dinner lasted over two hours.

Christofias thanked the Eroglus for their hospitality, noting the dinner was held in a “very positive climate”.

“Certainly we are trying to build a better relationship which in the future will have its political impact, with positive results for our efforts,” he said, adding that he hoped to return the favour soon.

According to an unofficial translation from Turkish, Eroglu told reporters outside his home in the Kaimakli part of northern Nicosia that the two leaders did not discuss the Cyprus problem. He added: “We have become friends and this friendship will continue at the negotiating table.”

The Australian diplomat said he and his wife had a “wonderful evening” in a “fantastic, really excellent atmosphere”. He noted that it was “not an evening of negotiation but an evening of confidence building, where increasingly friends are getting together and building those personal relationships”.

He called on all Cypriots to “take some heart from the positive atmosphere” at the dinner, adding it was “a reminder that in Cyprus, you have a tragic past but an encouraging future”.

Last night’s dinner was the second dinner between the two leaders and their spouses, following from their first culinary exchange in a restaurant on the buffer zone last May hosted by the UN.

Before the dinner, Christofias said: “This is a social meeting of two Cypriots who represent the two communities, in an effort to create social, human relations.”

The last time a president crossed to the north for dinner was in 2001 when former president Glafcos Clerides attended a dinner hosted by then Turkish Cypriot leader Rauf Denktash. Since his election in 2008, Christofias has crossed north only once before to attend the funeral of Turkish Cypriot politician Ozger Ozgur.

It was not all pleasantries however about the dinner diplomacy, with EDEK yesterday expressing its “disagreement” with Christofias’ decision to attend the dinner. “It is not possible for the President of the Republic to cross to the occupied areas and have any contacts under the bayonet of the conqueror,” said a party statement.

Earlier in the day, the two leaders met for nearly two hours of official talks on the property issue in what Downer described as a “very good atmosphere”. Their representatives will meet again tomorrow to continue the discussions, while the leaders are due to meet again next Wednesday and on August 10.

Speaking on his return from the talks, Eroglu was quoted by the Turkish Cypriot press saying: “We want to create a bridge between the positions of the two sides on the property issue.”

Fri, July 30th 2010 at 11:00

djemil from London comments:

To Val

I do not hold a PHD in History or any other subject. My knowledge of recent Cyprus History comes from real life experince - because I was there when the Greek police came to our defenceless village and forced us to leave our village.
So unlike you, my knowledge is first hand and does not depend on some rubbish you have read in books.
So I repeat what I said earlier - The greeks tried to get rid of the turks from Cyprus. The turkish army came and stopped them.
The day Turkey invaded was the happiest day of my life. I am sure thousands of other turkish cypriots have the same sentiment.
And yet we want to move on and work out a co-existing life with Greek Cypriots. Thats why I think a negotiated settlement is a way forward but it needs give and take for both sides - very much like the Annan plan.

Fri, July 30th 2010 at 09:03

TheRealLoriot from Lapta comments:

Val, you have a very selective way of viewing ancient history. ALL empires have extended their boundaries by war and occupation. Do you believe that BYZANTINE was invited by its neighbors to come and rule?
Greeks are great pointing fingers at others while denying their own past. After World War II more Greeks killed one another in their own land than those who were victims of the war. Greece has an equally long list of military coups as Turkey, forgotten?
Turkey today prospers while Greece is a basket case, presently destroying what's left of her tourism business, but posters from dwarf countries like Cyprus try to belittle Turkey's economic success story. Laughable!

Fri, July 30th 2010 at 08:33

Loriot from Lapta comments:

Now Christoph is hijacking other contributor's names as well. The posting below is NOT from Loriot!
What a poor fellow! You must be very desperate now that you have been exposed as a fake!
Back to kindergarten!

Fri, July 30th 2010 at 04:29

Loriot from Lapta comments:

Christoph, you think you know everything don't you? You may or may not be Hassan Kemal, but I'm going to keep on accusing you of it because you accused James and I of being lovers. And that is OUR secret!

Fri, July 30th 2010 at 04:27

Christoph from USA comments:

The NEW Ethics, courtesy of Fevzi: "Restitution is not practical, in fact it's unjust"

So sayeth the criminal when asked to give back what he has stolen. Always. Too bad society thinks differently.

Fri, July 30th 2010 at 04:25

Christoph from USA comments:

That's right, I'maBritass. You nailed it.

Fri, July 30th 2010 at 04:25

I'maBritassandproudofit from USA comments:

"Why is it that the Turks are always after other peoples lands and houses?"

Val, the Turks have stolen from other folks as long as they've existed. They lack the creativity and business savvy to make it on their own, so they take what others create, build and acquire. They stole from the Armenians, Greeks, Pontians, Assyrians, Kurds and now the Cypriots. But their stealing days are coming to an end, which is why their nation will collapse within a decade-2 at the outside. They've never shown any ability to make it in business up to now, why should today be any different?

Fri, July 30th 2010 at 04:22

I'maBritassandproudofit from LONDON comments:

Personally I love Cyprus. Had holiday there last year and we got chit-faced every day! Then held wild sex parties on the beach. Blimey, it was horrowshow!!!

Fri, July 30th 2010 at 04:20

Christoph from USA comments:

Loriot, still ASSuming I'm Hassan Kemal. Hey, when I prove I'm not will you kill yourself in humiliation and post it to the forum??? LOL

Fri, July 30th 2010 at 02:08

Briit and Proud of it comments:

Val, there was something called the Acritas plan written in the early 1960's, probably by Papadop, which was a blue print for the disenfanchisement of the Turkish Cypriots,intended to lead to Enosis, the attempted implementation of which which contributed to inter-communal violence and precipated the crises which resulted in the first Green Line.

Fri, July 30th 2010 at 00:55

Val comments:

Djemil, I am very impressed with your explanation.Do you happen to hold a PhD in History,from the Sorbonne perhaps? Whatever, I am delighted to be communicating with you.

Fri, July 30th 2010 at 00:43

John Alexander from London comments:

How many Turkish Cypriots fall into the category of having had their homes destroyed in the free areas and have nothing to return to? Not very many, a few thousand.

The vast majority of those living in GC properties are settlers, who have no rights to our homes and lands; or Turkish Cypriots who left the free areas in 1974 and not because of GCs but at the insistence of Turkey and Denktash.

Why should GCs be stripped of their property because of the policies of Turkey? Turkey should be made to compensate those TCs it relocated to occupied Cyprus. Besides which, even in Annan, 90,000 GC refugees would have had their homes restored, and many – especially in Morphou – would have replaced TCs and Turks, and there were provisions for compensation to be paid and new homes built for them. So, restitution will happen and there is also a feasible mechanism to deal with those who've been illegally living in GC property, i.e. they go somewhere else – and back to Turkey, if they are settlers.

Fri, July 30th 2010 at 00:34

djemil from london comments:

To: Val - what a lot of garbage you write.

You seem to know nothing about history so just dont say anything - thats my advise to you.

If the greek cypriots did not try to get rid of the turkish cypriots in the first place the turkish army would not have come to cyprus to help the turkish cypriots

Fri, July 30th 2010 at 00:00

Val comments:

Why is it that the Turks are always after other peoples lands and houses?Don't they have any of their own? They always want what belongs to some one else. That makes them vindictive, jealous thieves and then when the victim of their theft protests and wants his property back the Turks invent all kinds of lies to justify their refusal to give up the goods that they have stolen.This is their history:They murdered the Armenians and stole everything they had in the land where the Armenians were a nation long before the arrival of the Turks.The Pontians were systematically tortured, raped, murdered , their ancient civilization brutally wiped out and their lands and houses given to Turkish nomads.Now the Turks are trying to do it to the Cypriotes who have lived on their island since the beginning of time.And as if this was not enough they are also now talking about a Turkey without Kurds. I wonder how this psychopathic people intend to get rid of 15 million Kurds who live in Turkey. Well,their history teaches them how.And when they have murdered everyone around them they will present themselves as lovers of democracy,defenders of Europe and will want to claim their rightful place among the leading nations of the European Union.In truth , we all know that Turkey is a sick nation that urgently needs emergency psychiatric therepy sustained over a long period of time. That is the reason why I want partition and not union in Cyprus.You cannot unite with people who are unable to reason and who only respect military power.The derelict town of Varosi is an example of what I am speaking of.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 23:34

Briit and Proud of it comments:

@ james JH Lockhart - empty vessels make the most noise. This is not directed at you but the more racist elements, particularly those who resoort to out and out abuse. perhaps if we ignore those who are simply abusive they will go away.

@ John Alexander, Dave the Imapler (and Fevzi) - both sides have been fed hatred and Racism over the years - it is this that has lead to the selective editing of History whereby some are blinded to the faults of the side thay feel they belong to.

As Giratzi points out, geneticaly the genuine (Turkish) Cypriots (i.e not the post 1974 settlers) and (Greek) Cypriots are closer to each other than either are to the allged home, and where the outrages have been perpetrated on (Turkish) Cypriot by (Greek) Cypriot and by (Turkish) Cypriot on (Greek) Cypriot,led by what may be perhaps the biggest lie of all, i.e. the alleged links to homelands that are tenuous in the extreme, but also (Greek)Cypriot on (Greek)Cypriot and (Turkish) Cypriot on (Turkish) Cypriot), i.e. essentially Cypriot on Cypriot.

In that respect, why did so many Cypriots move to the land of the Britsh Colonilaist oppressors and not their notional homelands?

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 23:21

James JH lockhart comments:

loriot,

Do not Worry About the Agitors trying to Stop the CM Internet posting System There Employer only paid peanuts,

Rumour is the monkey turned it Down but Christopher Accepted !!!

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 23:21

Fevzi from London & Kyrenia comments:

Dave the Impaler:
My comment that politicians in south Cyprus disseminate hate and tell lies about the Turkish Cypriots is often confirmed in the CM by Greek Cypriot journalists, usually on a Sunday, you should know who I mean.
You say that you see Greek and Turkish workers happily getting on in Ayia Napa when you visit.... Isn't that exactly what I said in my comment, that leaving politics out, GCs and Tcs can be very good friends? You obviously missed the point.
However, we do have something in common. Yasar Halim in Haringey has the best bread, savouries and cakes, better than in Cyprus. I go there often.
.................................................
John Alexander;
As Loriot from Lapta tells you, restitution is not practical, in fact it would be unjust. What would you say to a Turkish Cypriot resident living in a GC property in the north for the last 36 years whose own home in his village in the Republic has been destroyed by Greek Cypriots, together with all TC houses and the village school as well? Or, to another TC resident whose own home in the south is occupied by a GC? We cannot put the clock back, it's too late. If people got back, what jobs will they do, which schools will their children go to? Even the ECHR has recognised the rights of the present occupier because to evict him would immediately create another problem. Compensation and exchange will be the form if there is an agreement and, where possible, return of property/land. That's it. ECHR supports this.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 22:44

James JH lockhart comments:

ZIG,

Tell me Exactly why you Think a Family meal in a Family home, Which gives All parties a chance to know each other better, Same As meeting a person You do not know For a pint, Maybe and i stress maybe All the individuals might have found out the other people have maybe different political views, but Share the Same Family problems Etc Without politics is

TAXPAYERS EXPENSE

Show your Evidence ???

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 22:35

MELIOS A. IOANNIDES comments:

Social exchanges between our Leaders is a good start to pave the way for a better understanding among our two communities.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 22:27

James JH lockhart comments:

Loriot,

Do not Worry These idiots posting under names Christopher JT john Alexander etc, Do not represent Main Stream GC opinion,

My own personal Opinion of them is they are paid Agitors to Stir up Hatreds, Infact Ignorance Sums them up.

They have two Aims

1. Stop the CM Have a online Posting system

2. Stir Racial hatreds

So For All Genuine Posters Do not let these people Win !!!

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 22:26

zig from uk comments:

why are these leaders talking and having dinner partys at the expence of the tax payers.
same old shit everytime.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 21:07

Loriot from Lapta comments:

Christoph, now it's time to give up your Hassan Kemal charade, you just look stupid!

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 20:45

PG from Nicosia comments:

Perhaps someone should set up a website that will connect ordinary Cypriots for similar 'dinner' diplomacy too - it could be interesting...

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 20:37

Loriot from Lapta comments:

Christoph, I wouldn't think you have a drivers license.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 20:36

Danos comments:

Hassan Kemal is such a greek boy :) love it.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 20:30

hassan kemal from UK/Kyrenia comments:

Loriot from Lapta

When the time comes you will vacate your GC house and you will say goodby to North Cyprus.

I will drive you to the airport (Larnaca) to save you taxi fare.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 20:07

Loriot from Lapta comments:

One more thing, John Alexander, the ECHR has also emphasized the rights of present property owners, which would mean a complicated and drawn out procedure to be assessed case by case.
All this could have been done 2 decades ago, now it's too late!

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 19:59

Loriot from Lapta comments:

Well, then it will mean no solution. To believe that the TRNC government can afford to void thousands of title deeds is totally unrealistic. It will never happen.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 19:36

John Alexander from London comments:

Except Loriot, the 'TRNC' has no legal foundation, and the European courts have recognised the 'IPC' as Turkey's baby, not the 'TRNC's' – which it did not recognise in any way. And the 'TRNC's' federated successor will have to adopt the strictures of any agreement. Going to local courts after an agreement has been ratified will have no meaning. I guess people can try test cases in the ECHR, but this is not an obstacle to restitution, just a poor excuse to deny refugees the right of return. And, like I keep saying, no restitution means no solution.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 19:21

DAVE THE IMPALER comments:

hassan, you should of taken the ferry to Symi from Rhodes. One of the most beautiful places I've ever been to.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 19:20

Loriot from Lapta comments:

Christoph, you just remain a bullshitter.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 19:13

hassan kemal from UK/Kyrenia comments:

Loriot from Lapta

Rhodes was fine I felt at home. Thank you very much for asking.

4000 Turks live there including a relative of Mrs Aziz a famous pharmacys in Turkish Nicosia.

No schools for the Turkish kids. Greek authorities would not allow that and imams not allowed to call for prayers

All the mosques were locked but seemed very looked after.

It was not a problem for me to tell them thet I was Turkish Cypriot they spoke similar Greek like us.

You should go

Beer was excellant so was food.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 19:00

Loriot from Lapta comments:

John Alexander: you are (wrongly) assuming that there is no legal structure in the TRNC (even the European Courts have shown confidence by allowing to set up the IPC in North Cyprus. Owners of TRNC title deeds would have regress claims against sellers as well as the Turkish Cypriot government in case they stand to lose out. Such claims would be dealt with in TRNC courts.
It would be a mistake to expect the TRNC to disappear, even in case of a settlement it would have a successor in any new bi-zonal administration.
The only workable solution must be based on financial solutions and/ or voluntary exchanges.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 18:41

John Alexander from London comments:

I would have thought, Loriot, that in the majority of cases restitution was quite possible, regardless of whether properties have 'changed hands' – they did not 'change hands' legally, did they, so on what grounds will people bring law suits and to which authority? The principle should still be that the original owner of the property should decide whether they want restitution or exchange or compensation.

Christofias' argument is that if the TCs are worried about all the GCs refugees returning to their properties and undermining bizonality, then the Turkish side has to accept a smaller zone, which is why he insists on discussing territory alongside property. He also reckons, probably accurately, that not many GCs would return to live in the Turkish federated state and would opt for compensation. But the original owner deciding is a basic human right, which the Turkish side should respect. The restitution of property is the most important issue for GCs. It is why we are prepared to consider all the other stuff to do with governance.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 18:20

DAVE THE IMPALER comments:

gibratsi, since 2007 actually. Anyway having meetings in Stormont is not exactly, as you earlier put it "shared many a pint" is it.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 18:02

gibratsi from London UK comments:

Dave the Impaler
The Catholics and the Protestants have been power sharing in Northern Ireland since 2008 although the Northern Ireland Act was passed ten years earlier.Ian Paisley was the first First Minister and Martin McGuinness the Deputy First Minister.At present Peter Robinson is the First Minister and Martin McGuinness the Deputy First Minister.

Perhaps Gerry Addams did not actually share a pint with Ian Paisley, but they have certainly sat round the same table.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 17:39

Loriot from Lapta comments:

And 'Has(s)an Kemal: how is the weather in Rhodes?

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 17:37

Loriot from Lapta comments:

The restitution bit, John Alexander, is a technical and legal impossibility, even if Eroglu would be willing to entertain this idea. Thousands of properties have changed hands, many of them several times. It is not feasible to roll this back without entering into an equal number of law suits. It would take scores of lawyers and probably a decade of court cases without an end in sight.
It is an unrealistic expectation.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 17:14

DAVE THE IMPALER comments:

gibratsi, "Gerry Adams has shared many a pint with Ian Paisley" when did this happen?

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 17:04

gibratsi from London UK comments:

John Alexander,the wise man of these columns has spoken again.

PS By the way,Gerry Adams has shared many a pint with Ian Paisley since power sharing was implemented and the Turkish Prime Minister is called Erdogan.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 16:24

DAVE THE IMPALER comments:

Hassan, I love middle eastern & turkish food. So I would have great difficulties turning down eroglu and mrs eroglus invitation. Turkish bread is the best though Yasar halim in Haringey, N.London is my second home.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 16:23

John Alexander from London comments:

Yes, Fevzi, to suggest that Greek Cypriots are informed by lies and hate is deeply racist – i.e. shows that you have succumbed to lies and hate yourself. As for the dinner: You can't imagine in other conflicts around the world – Israel, Ireland, Turkey – Netanyahu having dinner with Abbas; Gerry Adams sharing a pint with Ian Paisley; or Ocalan having a gin and tonic with Ergodan – which might may you think that the animosity between Greek and Turkish Cypriots is surmountable – or that the rules of hospitality for Cypriots are inviolable, as in the joke that says that when the English soldiers entered our villages looking for EOKA men, we didn't know whether to shoot them or offer them a glass of water.

Either way, the key to this story is in the last paragraph with regards to the property issue currently being discussed at the talks. No progress has been made, as the Turks are insisting on compensation and exchange, not restitution.

Fact is that until Turkey decides it wants a solution, Christofias and Eroglu can have as many dinners together as they like, the talks will go nowhere – which is, actually, want Turkey – and Eroglu – want, in order that they can put into action an enhanced campaign for recognition of the pseudo-state or, at least, the implementation of direct trade from the EU.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 16:16

hassan kemal from UK/Kyrenia comments:

As a matter of principle as a TC I would not have a dinner with Eroglu because of what he represents.

He represents division, class and everything that is sillegal going on in North Cyprus.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 15:47

DAVE THE IMPALER comments:

Fevzi, "The most successful industry is south Cyprus is the dissemination of hate and lies by the politicians". I wonder where you got that piece of information from? Maybe the kind and gentle grey wolfs perhaps or maybe it was censored by the good people thet brought you Article 301 of the Turkish Penal Code.
Strange though, because whenever I visit places like Ayia Napa, Larnaca, etc. I seem to find hundreds of turks happily working with greeks. No hate no lies just people getting on with their lives.
you remined me, many years ago at uni. I had a TC friend called Ali when ever we headed out to night clubs he would always change his name to Mike because he thought he would have more of a chance with the girls if his name sounded european.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 15:41

gibratsi from London UK comments:

Fevzi,

I agree with almost everything you say.One more thing I would add to your comments is that Greek Cypriots and Turkish Cypriots are from the same stock.DNA test have come to that conclusion.Cypriots , both GCs and TCs have more in common with each other than people from 'their respective motherlands'.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 14:25

Fevzi from London & Kyrenia comments:

If you could take politics, ultra-nationalism and such like out of the equation, Greek Cypriots and Turkish Cypriots can be very good friends. They both have sincere hospitality in their genes and I believe, so do their people in their respective motherlands.
It is politics that spoils it all.
When I got married in London many years ago a Greek colleague gave me the most present, more than the Turks. At meetings I felt closer to him than my English colleagues. On another occasion when I was doing business with a Greek Cypriot (I hid my Turkish nationality, made out I was Iranian, in case he was prejudiced)he was telling me he came from a mixed village in Cyprus and a Turkish Cypriot neighbour gave him milk as a baby while his parents worked in the fields. There are many examples of Greek/Turkish Cypriot friendship before 1960.
Unfortunately, the history of Cyprus being full of opposing desires, conflict, killings and then the tragedy of war resulting in the loss of homes and businesses to both sides, does not afford time to show friendship. The most successful industry is south Cyprus is the dissemination of hate and lies by the politicians. That's why Cyprus will not be united. We will live in our respective zones, states or whatever. Let's hope that in time we can be friends, trade with each other and prosper. We might even share the water that's coming our way.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 12:49

Eleni from Nicosia comments:

Please take a look here, how peace begins a short video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sJqvYyOjF5g&feature=player_embedded#!

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 12:47

Loriot from Lapta comments:

Stalin and Churchill got on very well for some time. Stalin even trusted Hitler.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 12:41

John from Nicosia , Cyprus comments:

I trust they are making great strides forwards!I feel the positive flow between these two leaders!Its growing!

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 12:16

gibratsi comments:

Martin

I was so sure the ordinary people would see that the Anaan Plan was a good compromise.Unfortunately it was not explained to them in such a way so that the ordinary peasant and the churchgoer would understand.

Remember it was the Church and Akel who literally and physically threatened the GCs not to vote YES at the referendum.

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 12:01

Loriot from Lapta comments:

Wish it were true, gibratsi! However, it would not pass the Greek Cypriot referendum (unless huge amounts of cash are thrown in).

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 11:53

Martin Standage from Paphos,Cyprus. comments:

If only more ordinary Cypriots from both sides followed their example we could give the politicians the elbow-maybe that's what they are afraid of???

Thu, July 29th 2010 at 11:21

gibratsi from London UK comments:

Yes, now more than ever I am convinced the two leaders are preparing the way for an 'amicable separation'(description by Bambouin).