Liverpool boss Arne Slot said it had been difficult for the team to get back to work after the death of Diogo Jota and so he had suggested to his players that perhaps the best way forward was to follow their late teammate’s shining example.

Liverpool were kicking off their pre-season friendlies with a game at Preston on Sunday, 10 days after Jota and his brother Andre Silva died in a car crash in Spain on July 3.

“What I’ve said to the players, it’s very difficult to find the right words because we constantly debate what is appropriate,” Slot said in an emotional interview with Liverpool’s in-house media.

Liverpool players observe a minute’s silence for former Diogo Jota ahead of their pre-season friendly against Preston North End at Deepdale

“What is appropriate in our actions? What is appropriate [for] what we have to say? Can we train again? Can we laugh again? Can we be angry if there’s a wrong decision?

“And I’ve said to them, maybe the best thing for us to do is handle this situation like Jota was,” he added. “And what I meant with that is that Jota was always himself, it didn’t matter if he was talking to me, to his teammates, to the staff, he was always himself.

“So let us try to be ourselves as well. So, if we want to laugh we laugh; if we want to cry we’re going to cry.”

Liverpool delayed the return of players to pre-season training as most of them attended the funeral in Portugal last week.

The club announced on Friday that they would permanently retire Jota’s number 20.

Preston North End captain Benjamin Whiteman with a wreath of flowers in tribute to Liverpool’s Diogo Jota

Slot said the 28-year-old, who played a key role in Liverpool winning the Premier League title this past season, was one player he could always count on in difficult moments.

“I always looked at him and said, ‘now we need something special from you’,” Slot said. “And he delivered so many times. I can come up with all of these moments.

“So we are in a very difficult time, so let’s try to do what Diogo did so many times. If it’s so difficult then try a little bit harder or just keep on going and try to make it work.”

Slot, who said the team would always carry Jota in their hearts, said it was a challenge to see anything, including football, as “important if we think of what has happened”.

“But we are a football club and we need to train and we need to play again, if we want it or not.”

Preston North End captain Benjamin Whiteman stands in front of Deepdale’s Bill Shankly Kop, where Liverpool fans were housed, after laying a wreath to honour Diogo Jota